"attitude is a matter of choice.."

..that is what mommy edna said...and in fact, she is right... no matter what the circumstances are..or the people involved..or even the situation is... we are always the one responsible for what we've said or the action we have taken... and that changed my perception of taking blame...i am a very talkative person and oftentimes, what i say hurts another human being... but i regret it after thinking... and so now i realize that it is me who is wrong no matter what or who had been the primary reason... and i've learned to accept that fact.


and i know it is not automatic that all the other people in this world would do the same...they would keep on saying what they feel no matter what and blame others of the consequences of what they've said...sad, right?! but that is reality...everything is fair....yap,you read that right...life is fair...for all of us experience unfair situations...with no exception whether you are rich or poor..intelligent or dumb...professional or amateur... with a group of friends or an emo...a true friend or not..a loyal friend or a backstabber...no matter what...you will feel bad...


so,i guess, mommy edna is really right...i should always think first of what i'll say or do because it is my responsibility whatever be the consequences of those simple words... i am not them, they are not me...i should never expect them to be as reasonable or wide-minded as me... i should accept the fact that people are different from each other, we mature at different times and for different reasons... my words are my attitude...not the people around me,neither how they act or speak...again, they are not me and i am not them...so please understand if i state this...i don't believe in the saying..."tell me who your friends are and i'll tell you who you are..."(well maybe if they are real...and not imaginary...hahaha)...what i believe in is you are who you are...it is your choice,nobody else's... don't blame others of your ugly characteristics...blame your choices...blame yourself...and when you're done blaming your imperfect self, start changing for you to mature...you need to change the way you think and behave,not the way your frinds do for you to mature....and once again, they are not me and i am not them!!!!.... Godbless!!!=)

-angelica...

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MICHAELANGELO ANGELES!!!!!!!!....i hope you find what i wrote worth reading and put it into your life...you will forever be a treasured friend...take care!! Godbless!!!